Relationships are becoming more and more difficult now days. In many relationships there is conflict and misunderstanding. Relationship problems have roots in egotism, domination, selfishness, cheating, jealousy, anger, fear, lust etc. The list is never ending.
Relationship problems begin with blame and complaints and ends with break ups and divorce. So to avoid these problems find the faults in your mindset. Many people have a tendency to complain over small things. And these small complaints latter convert into unstoppable conflicts between partners.
So, just ignore small things.
Doubt is another factor. If you doubt your partner than he will also start doubting you and it will go on and on. Many times these kind of doubts has zero evidence. So look if your doubt is a fact or just your imagination. Your partner coming home late night does not means he is cheating you, may be he was busy, tired or there was a traffic jam.
Not paying attention is also one reason. But the reason may be he is involved too much in his work or there is some financial tension or any official tension.
Whatever the problem is but never insult or use abusive language. This one rule may save your relationship. Use words very carefully. Trust your partner. Perhaps he needs your support. Misunderstanding will close all doors between you.
Never, never break communication. Just because you are angry or disturbed does not mean that you are right. Perhaps you are totally misunderstood the facts. So always remain calm and quite. In negative situations always try to remember happy moments with your partner. Those moments you spend happily together will certainly give you hope and trust.
If you meditate regularly and stay in the present moment then your mind will naturally remain calm and quite. You will see things more clearly and there will be no possibility of any conflict. For long term relationships a peaceful mind and a heart full of love are more than sufficient.
When there is love you don't need to forgive because you don't blame in the first place. Never argue with your partner. Arguments never solve anything. Let go and relax.
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