There is NO Soul mate

There is no soul mate. Soul mate is a wrong concept installed by so called foolish romantic novel writers, who never get laid. Their soul mates are sleeping with their friends while they are writing novels. Beware of the false concepts and beliefs. You will never come across a right person in your life. You may travel all over the world but there is no Mr. Right or Mrs. Right for you. Every person is attractive or intelligent in some way. Someone can give you romantic feeling, another person may give you deep emotional support, and another one can give you sexual fulfillment. But no one can give you total satisfaction. That's the basic reasons of breakups. And many people compromise. They make themselves satisfied superficially but deep down there is carving.

Many times you come to conclusion that this is the right person for you, and that person has zero interest in you. Then your life becomes miserable and unhappy. Focusing on a person who has no interest in you leads you towards madness. If you want to become successful in seduction then first of all wipe up this wrong concept from your mind completely.

Everyone is unique in some way.
If you look carefully then you will find every person is interesting in some way. There are many many people on this planet who can become your potential lovers. So don't focus on a single person. As people are getting more and more matured the concept of marriage, love and living in relationships will disappear from the world. Be prepared. How long you can remain happy with a single person. If you find someone with whom you can live happily forever then perhaps you are lucky. But this is a very rare phenomenon. Almost impossible!

Antidote for soul mate concept: 

• Every human being is unique in some way, god has created us in different ways
• Have options, more options more power
• You can have MANY SOUL MATES ...!
• Keep changing the channels until you find the right channel for you (but then also you will get fade up after some time, then again change the channel)
• More variety, more fun, more maturity
• Find many friends who can fulfill your every aspect (emotional, physical, mental, spiritual etc.)
• You must have at least 5 options before you breakup with your soul mate
• Your soul mate can find another soul mate so be prepared!

Why you should avoid negative people

Negative people suck your energy. You will feel as if they are sucking your energy and creativity. People who keep on criticizing others are victim of inferiority complex and low self esteem. If this kind of person is always around you and making negative comments on you then slowly slowly your mind will accept these negative suggestions.

Your subconscious mind does not know what is right and what is wrong. It does not have any filter. If you keep repeating same idea over and over then your mind will accept it. And these negative people always giving negative opinions and suggestions to you will cause great damage to your self esteem. Once the mind accept negative suggestions and get programmed then it becomes very difficult to get free from this programming. It is like virus infection.

Some people are so negative that even their presence can be harmful for you. If someone deeply expect negative results regarding you than there is every possibility that it can manifest. There negative energy can change the course of your life in destructive direction.

If you are having any person in your group then he will corrupt the whole group. So beware. Don't have a mercy. Make safe distance. Don't have this kind of friend around you just because you are lonely. Find better options to entertain yourself.

Dealing with rejection

Did you ever get rejected in life, in relationship or in job? How do you feel? Do you feel that you don't deserve? Do you feel bad, frustrated or depressed? Well, you feel bad after rejection simply because you don't know how to handle rejection. Right?

Two different people can respond the same rejection in different ways. One can feel sad and other can move on.

If you get rejected then first thing never doubt about your abilities. Perhaps the person who rejected you have not good choice or taste. People can misunderstand your abilities or talents. Because they are viewing you from their limited view or perspective.

Find other options. Rejection can make you feel like helpless, but in reality nobody is so helpless that he could not find any option. There are many option for jobs, relationships and any area of life. Go and find them.

Rejection should never affect your self esteem and confidence. Often you will find the most successful people are those who were most rejected people.

Use rejection to increase your self esteem, self confidence and attractiveness. Whenever you get rejected for some reason, that is a opportunity or self improvement.

5 Ways to getting over fear

Fear is YOUR imagination. It can be logical or illogical but it's sure that it is YOUR creation and you can have absolute control over it. Fear is never in active present. It is always about something happened in the past or something may happen in the future. Understand it is your friend, it gives you signal. If there is no fear then there is no difference between a mad man and you. You may jump from the 10th floor and die. So fear is necessary, but as soon as it gives you the signal it's duty is finished. Now your brain should stop giving the signals. But sometimes it goes on and on and on. Then it becomes problem.
So here are 5 quick ways to stop those signals.

1. Suggestions: Tell your brain to stop giving the signals. Tell him quietly that now I understand the message and I'll take appropriate action to prevent the disasters. Your brain is like an obedient servant. It will listen. It will stop giving the signals and you will feel relax in few moments.
2. Breath deeply: Sometimes fear is strong and you start trembling, so in that case breath deeply. Start by exhaling. Breathing has control over your brain. If you keep breathing deeply then you can not remain fearful. If still fear goes on then breath from your mouth for 3 to 5 minutes.
3. Accept fear!: yes this is the quickest way from my experience. Don't do anything just accept and acknowledge that there is fear, and you don't know what to do in this situation. That's all. Fear remains as long as you fight with it, but it can not survive if you don't fight with it. Just go with the flow. If there is fear be fearful. Tremble and shake. And soon you will find that it can not increase after it reach to the peak. 
4. Watch fear: Watching creates distance. If you totally accept then you become one with fear and it disappears but if you watch fear then you get detached with fear and it get vanished. As soon as you look within your mind for fear and start searching the hidden fear it simply vanish. Fear is like darkness. It can not face the light of watchfulness. Simply close your eyes and observe the feeling, thought and emotions which you call fear and see yourself what happens.
5. Live in the present: Fear is about past or future. Stop worrying about the future or past. Past is over and future will bring it's own solutions. So enjoy the moment. If you enjoy every moment of life then there is no space for fear to exist. Make it a rule to live in the present. Whenever you start feeling uncomfortable, anxious or fearful, just come back to this moment. Feel your breathing, feel your body, listen to the sounds around you and you will instantly feel relaxed.

One more simple way to destroy the fear instantly:
Let us consider you have a spider phobia or any other fear,
Close your eyes, see the images which makes you feel fearful. Watch them as if you are watching a movie. After one minute make that images smaller and in your imagination place them at a distance, away from you. Them make them black and white, distort them and make them even smaller and smaller. Then run that fearful movie in backward direction very speedily, give that movie a background music of a cartoon movie. That's all. This will take only 3-5 minutes. And that particular fear will never give you any trouble.
Fear is imagination so you can change your imagination and make it funny.