Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Dealing with rejection

Did you ever get rejected in life, in relationship or in job? How do you feel? Do you feel that you don't deserve? Do you feel bad, frustrated or depressed? Well, you feel bad after rejection simply because you don't know how to handle rejection. Right?

Two different people can respond the same rejection in different ways. One can feel sad and other can move on.

If you get rejected then first thing never doubt about your abilities. Perhaps the person who rejected you have not good choice or taste. People can misunderstand your abilities or talents. Because they are viewing you from their limited view or perspective.

Find other options. Rejection can make you feel like helpless, but in reality nobody is so helpless that he could not find any option. There are many option for jobs, relationships and any area of life. Go and find them.

Rejection should never affect your self esteem and confidence. Often you will find the most successful people are those who were most rejected people.

Use rejection to increase your self esteem, self confidence and attractiveness. Whenever you get rejected for some reason, that is a opportunity or self improvement.

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