Friday, May 6, 2011

How to overcome approach anxiety in 3 steps

Many people suffering from approach anxiety now days. It is just because of wrong belief system. It is unconscious programming of your brain and it can be cure very easily. There are millions of beautiful women out there but you can not approach them. Right? This is called approach anxiety. You see a beautiful women on the road, you want to say hello but you can not. OK? But after reading this post YOU CAN!
There are three steps:
  • Understand women: Understand that women are not much different than you. They are exactly like you. 99% you are same. Same blood, bones, hair, flesh, slightly difference in color, language but same pain and pleasure, desires and dreams. Really you are not different. And they are much like you. They also want someone to approach them. They also want fun and pleasure. There is difference in few organs only. But they also have the same emotions.
  • Observe women: I recommend you just go for walk everyday in the local market and malls and observe women. Just observe! You don't need to approach them, just watch. Observe, what is a woman? Just watch. Watch as many women as you can. This watching will automatically remove your fear of woman. I don't know if you know about the Law of Attraction but it says anything you focus on attracts towards you. Here you are not trying to attract her but just focusing without any intention. More you observe more you will feel relax and fearless about woman. As you observe regularly more and more beautiful girls you will loose fear. You will become aware that there is abundance of women. And they are also lonely and they also want more and more friends. They are also suffering through bad relationships and breakups. You will observe that beautiful women also carrying inferiority complex perhaps about money or education. Once your mind get clear about simple facts about women you will naturally feel confident. 
  • Approach women: In the beginning approach sales girls. They are ready to talk with you. They are there to help you, to entertain you. Go in every mall and talk with as many sales girls as you can and this will reduce your fear of women significantly. You will naturally begin to treat women as your friends. Then you will have a natural body language and voice tone with women. This will create new neurological path ways in your brain to deal with women. And your mind will get programmed how to behave naturally and confidently with women.
How to have even more confidence with women?
If you are living in a metro city then I recommend you to find some Discotheques, Pubs, Singles Bars, Dance Bars and visit there for some days regularly. You will find there most beautiful and stunning women. And you don't need to approach them, THEY will approach you! This will make you feel special.

My friend Bunty told me, "First time In Mumbai I went in a Dance Bars and three stunning and beautiful girls dance in front of me just for few bucks. They were 100 times more attractive then my previous girl friends. This event changed my perspective about getting hottest women in short time easily and safely in few bucks without any emotional turmoil. This new perspective helps me now when I meet a new girl on the street or malls."

If you are crushed on a woman and not able to approach her then forget her and move into the market. Don't waste your time. Time is more valuable than money and that special girl who don't want to talk to you. There are millions of special girls who wants a boyfriend. Find them. Meet them. Enjoy life.

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